It is a deadly anchor has become normalised for humans believing each other should live and feel what you yourself live and feel.
The demands human places on one another to agree with whatever real you are experiencing must be validated by way through others not conjuring it is explosive, in terms of the effect it throws up and the play it evokes between humans.
Control is the name of the game, and you are doing it, like it or not, are you taking your real feed through others lives at play, for you have no choice but to, are you to survive yourself of that effect and reality taps your causal energy.
You think you care as you bond through body of thought and feel with what others conjure as their dark effects, and it seems as though you must, or be seen as cold and non empathetic to their cause, is another word for them asking you to buy into what is not your reality animation.
To be compassionate and understanding of others means you know your place not theirs, keep a keen eye and focus on what your thought is doing and your body feeling, absent of them playing with their own, and express yourself if at all, by way of the clarity and truth set forth by law through you, plays not with the dark energies working through the human body at odds with its own composition and expression.

When a mind evokes a reason it is not to blame for not getting what it wants and thinks it deserves, and rather allows the shadow it lights up rule and justify its play, is a real hard nut to crack. The many conditions put stay to the human egos formidable boundaries angular and defiant by nature are sunk deep the human heat and dna expressing, have to be released through the physical effects revoked playing out for want of overlooking them as self induced and causal, is a crushing tendency many humans bear to out perform, will love and laud as it suits, and hate at as it does not, through the many self plays cunning and wise.
The moment you step onto the light train and barrel on down the tracks of spatial law and order, you leave behind all things and people may be tethered to you of the blood, and generally, unless it is keeping up with its own light game makes it amiable a light and accessible to a similar cycle. The human love and bond is beautiful, but full of itself, has all kinds of notions what it must be and do to sustain relationships through control and manipulation, is not a game the light ones play after awaking up through law to their power and cause animates their own effects, period, renders all players trying to steer the play null and void, yet loved more than many know, just not on ones own human terms wanting its own way, may still be pressing to control players in its movie, not play its own part and see it clear.

Completely natural it is , to reject and abhor spatial light energy pressing you by law to question your own existence and grow , to go where you may have no idea where to go is, have not groomed your mind and nature to receive the knowledge leads you to wisdom and power of law supersedes you, especially are you one living totally in the mental body and human framework not aware of your light and spatial essence thoughtless by nature. To navigate the dark light nature and not be throttled by your own shadow play you best realise it is all caused by your own playing with this and that conjured by you in your head as effects , however it seems around you, it is of you, or you will fall into the dark pit and cycles you prepare ahead of time for living through self avoidance, not allowing you be open to spatial wisdom of the unknown calling you forth and living you through you.